In this article, we will discuss how you make your self happy and how to be happy with your life.
You don’t want to live your entire life without being happy, right? so what can you do to actually make this happen?
A reporter once interviewed people on their death bed, and one of the most common things they regretted was that they haven’t allowed themselves to be happier.
Only you can make you happy with your life, so let’s get into it.
If your mindset is negative, then you won’t be happy, it’s that simple.
If you keep thinking about all the things you would want to change and never do anything about it, then you will have a negative mindset, since you’ll never be satisfied.
If you’re not happy with how your life is going, then do something about it so you become satisfied with how your life is going.
Don’t just walk around all negative and unhappy. Try to make yourself feel happy, by how you’re thinking on a daily basis.
If you try to be positive, then that will make your brain think positive.
The People In Your Life
Your friends and the people around you, make a big difference in how your life’s going to be.
If you’re constantly hanging out with negative people, then you will be more negative.
For example, if you want to accomplish something, and all of your friends that you can never achieve that, then you’ll start thinking that they’re right and you may not try it out.
That would be awful because you can accomplish anything you set your mind to. It may require a lot of hard work, but you can do anything you want if you put in the work and time for it.
If you’re around positive people, then you will feel happier because they’re not complaining about everything and telling you what you can or can’t do. They will be supportive all the time, which will give you the extra motivation you need to succeed.
It also has a huge impact on your mood if your friends are positive or negative. Of course, people can’t walk around positive all the time, because there will be some bad days, but I’m talking about in general. Some people can be negative 24 hours a day, and those people aren’t good for you, because it will be much harder to keep a positive mindset.
Most people have some sort of dream for their life. This can be a place they want to visit, maybe they want to travel the world for a period of time. This could also be a goal with where they want to live.
It could be a financial goal as well, or just any goal or dream you have.
If you have a dream for your life, then you have to work to get it!
If you’re 80 years old and you think back on your life, do you want to feel like all you’ve done is to work some 9-5 job to pay your bills and that’s it? No. You want to have as many happy memories and you can, and you want to have experienced everything you wanted to.
Do not wake up one day and think ”I wish I had done that” Do everything you need to do, while you still can, because one day you won’t have the opportunity to do it. Grab every opportunity to do what makes you happy, so you’ll have no regrets when you get older.
The only person who can make your dreams come true, is you. No one else is going to do it, so you have to put in the time, work and money to make your dreams come true, so you can live the life you want to live and not just the life everyone expects you to live.
Your job is one of the biggest parts of your life. You do it every day, and it takes most of your day, so this is a huge part of living a happy life. Let’s say you work 8 hours a day, at a job you hate every second of. That means you hate 1/3 of every day, and sleep 1/3 as well, then you have 1/3 left of each day to do something you want to do. Are you really satisfied with that?
Don’t you want to do something you love 2/3 of your day and sleep 1/3 instead?
Don’t be satisfied with what you do, just because everyone else does it. Only be satisfied when you feel satisfied with your job, because you shouldn’t hate every second of something for 8 hours a day, if you want to have a happier life. It doesn’t add up.
Look around what people do as jobs. Some people take pictures of them traveling and that’s it. Some people make music on YouTube. Some people write blogs about their life. Why shouldn’t you be able to follow your passion like all of those people do?
You might be thinking ”that’s one in a million that actually succeed with doing that” That might be true. But do you know why? Because the other 999.999 don’t take the chance, they never try, and if they try then they quit, which never leads to any success.
The biggest regret you can have is that you never tried. So try. If it leads to you being happy, isn’t it worth the work then?
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This advice is my best options for having a happier life. If you love your job, the people around you, live your dreams and have a positive mindset, then why wouldn’t you be happy? That sounds like a pretty perfect life to me.
Thank you for reading this article and as always, feel free to leave a comment down below with your thoughts.
You have the same chances as everyone else in being happy your entire life, so why not take advantage of those chances? Take some risk, because if you never try, then there’s a big chance of you regretting it later on.
See you in the next article!
All the best
Sebastian / Northern Nature